Wednesday, January 30, 2013

• Developing Child’s Self Confidence

Every parent wants their children to be self confident.
Boosting your child self confidence is an important goal for you.
Positive parenting includes boosting your child’s confidence level.
It helps your child to develop mentally and emotionally.
It also helps your child to develop with life skills and building self esteem.

Positive parenting includes certain things you can do and skills to develop in yourselves.
If you improve your skills, you can help your children to boost self confidence.
Positive parenting means responsibility of a parent to help a child grow in self confidence. When you start to parent a child, you have to remember you are in control of life and your control change your life forever.
Things to Help a Child Achieve and Gain Self-Confidence:
  • Giving praises and compliments
  • Reliability and consistency
  • Providing positive feed back
  • Encouraging them
  • Explaining the child to break down large projects into manageable tasks.
This is positive parenting. Helping your child to achieve and gain confidence to improve skills is the positive parenting
Giving praises and compliments:
Praise your child when he has done his job well. Praise him when he has achieved a good grade. Praise when he has completed a project well. If you praise for his success, it builds importance and desire to be more and to be better.
Prepare your child for ups and downs as life is not always easy and fair. If you complement your child, it will build self-confidence and courage in your child and can face people better in the knowledge and skills than they are.
If children know that their efforts and achievements are best, they feel good about their self and will help them make better decisions and judgments.
Children are very sensitive. Your response should be soft and positive when children make a mistake or an accident occurs. For negative actions also if you respond positively, children feel that you are there for them.
Don’t be too enthusiastic in praising your child. It will make less confident. Give a positive feedback if they perform any work successfully. This helps your child build self confidence. They don’t seek much approval or praise for smaller things.
Positive parenting includes development of your child’s self-esteem, self- worth, and self-confidence and teaching how to respond and handle situations in life.

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